âFrom the very beginning, make it your practice to say to every harsh impression, âyou are an impression and not at all what you appear to be.â Next, examine and test it by the rules you possess, the first and greatest of which is thisâwhether it belongs to the things in our control or not in our control, and if the latter, be prepared to respond, âIt is nothing to me.ââ
âEpictetus, Enchiridion, 1.5
In an overly quantified world of policies and processes, some are swinging back in the other direction. Bold leaders will âtrust their gut.â A spiritual guru will say that itâs important to âlet your body guide you.â A friend trying to help us with a difficult decision might ask, âWhat feels right here?â
These approaches to decision making contradict voluminous case studies in which peopleâs instincts have led them right into trouble. Our senses are wrong all the time! As animals subjected to the slow force of evolution, we have developed all sorts of heuristics, biases, and emotional responses that might have worked well on the savannah but are totally counterproductive in todayâs world.
Part of Stoicism is cultivating the awareness that allows you to step back and analyze your own senses, question their accuracy, and proceed only with the positive and constructive ones. Sure, itâs tempting to throw discipline and order to the wind and go with what feels rightâbut if our many youthful regrets are any indication, what feels right right now doesnât always stand up well over time. Hold your senses suspect. Again, trust, but always verify.
One of Epictetusâs key teachings was about testing all our impressionsâany experience, perception, or circumstance that we find in front of us. He uses a key verb to emphasize this practice, dokimazo, ten times in the Discourses and once in the opening of the Enchiridion. The word carries the meaning of the assayer, one who tests fine metals and coins to verify their authenticity. In one of the most memorable uses Epictetus compares our need to test impressions to what is done with coins and how the skilled merchant can hear a counterfeit coin cast upon a table just as a musician would detect a sour note. This week, let us go through the exercise of assaying everything that comes before us, assuming it all to be counterfeit or misleading until we can prove otherwise.
âWhen it comes to money, where we feel our clear interest, we have an entire art where the tester uses many means to discover the worth . . . just as we give great attention to judging things that might steer us badly. But when it comes to our own ruling principle, we yawn and doze off, accepting any appearance that flashes by without counting the cost.â
âEpictetus, Discourses, 1.20.8; 11
âFirst off, donât let the force of the impression carry you away. Say to it, âhold up a bit and let me see who you are and where you are fromâlet me put you to the test.â..
âEpictetus, Discourses, 2.18.24
âFrom the very beginning, make it your practice to say to every harsh impression, âyou are an impression and not at all what you appear to be.â Next, examine and test it by the rules you possess, the first and greatest of which is thisâwhether it belongs to the things in our control or not in our control, and if the latter, be prepared to respond, âIt is nothing to me.*â
âEpictetus, Enchiridion, 1.5
If we were to describe Stoicism in one sentence, it would be this: A Stoic believes they donât control the world around them, only how they respondâand that they must always respond with courage, temperance, wisdom, and justice.
Summary of Daily Stoic 4 Stoic Virtues.
âThe chief task in life is simply this: to identify and separate matters so that I can say clearly to myself which are externals not under my control, and which have to do with the choices I actually control. Where then do I look for good and evil? Not to uncontrollable externals, but within myself to the choices that are my ownâ
âEpictetus
Wisdom is harnessing what the philosophy teaches then wielding it in the real world. As Seneca put it, âWorks not words.â
ââIf you seek tranquillity, do less.â Or (more accurately) do whatâs essentialâwhat the logos of a social being requires, and in the requisite way. Which brings a double satisfaction: to do less, better. Because most of what we say and do is not essential. If you can eliminate it, youâll have more time, and more tranquillity. Ask yourself at every moment, âIs this necessary?ââ
âMarcus Aurelius, Meditations, 4.24
Temperance is the knowledge that abundance comes from having what is essential. The Stoics often used temperance interchangeably with âself-control.â Self-control, not just towards material goods, but self-control, harmony, and good discipline alwaysâin pleasure or pain, admiration or contempt, failure or triumph. Temperance is guarded against extremes, not relying on the fleetingness of pleasure for happiness nor allowing the fleetingness of pain to destroy it.
âAnd a commitment to justice in your own acts. Which means: thought and action resulting in the common good. What you were born to do.â
âMarcus Aurelius, Meditations, 9.31
Justice is âthe principle which constitutes the bond of human society and of a virtual community of life.â
Epictetus said, âSeeking the very best in ourselves means actively caring for the welfare of other human beings.â
âDonât you know life is like a military campaign? One must serve on watch, another in reconnaissance, another on the front line. . . . So it is for usâeach personâs life is a kind of battle, and a long and varied one too. You must keep watch like a soldier and do everything commanded. . . . You have been stationed in a key post, not some lowly place, and not for a short time but for life.â
âEpictetus, Discourses, 3.24.31-36
Epictetus was once asked which words would help a person thrive. âTwo words should be committed to memory and obeyed,â he said, âpersist and resist.â
Courage to face misfortune. Courage to face death. Courage to risk yourself for the sake of your fellow man. Courage to hold to your principles, even when others get away with or are rewarded for disregarding theirs. Courage to speak your mind and insist on truth.